On the first day of my Rolfing training, my partner instructed me the single best short lessen I've received in my bodywork career. While I was working on my strategy, she offered me three sharp words of somewhat unrefined admonishment:
"Refine your touch!" she proclaimed.
I understood then that if my touch was harsh and I attempted to make things happen against the will of my clients and their tissue, my work would be less effective and could be a cause of alienation rather than of a rewarding and close connection.
Make your sessions a journey rather than a destination and don't become too attached to the outcome of your task.
Some therapists seem like they're trying to win an argument with stubborn holding patterns.
Instead, consider your bodywork as a give-and-take dialogue, the outcome of which is your
client's voluntary release of pain.
It is important to recognize that your mindset can determine the quality of touch as much as your specific biomechanical techniques. As explained above, probably the single most common scenario in which work is perceived as overly intense is when a therapist works too quickly. Quick work is often attempted by therapists with a liberal sense of urgency to get too much work done or who cling to routines that emphasize covering the whole body with equal attention to all parts. Such routines can cause therapists to spend unneeded time on relaxed areas and to rush on areas of holding. Many therapists report fear of clients feeling short-changed if they don't perform a full-body massage. Although educating clients about the benefits of detailed spot work is very helpful, it is also possible to have the best of both worlds by simply educating clients on the advantages of longer massages. Lengthier massages leave enough time for the client to unravel holding patterns, while still covering the entire body with varying degrees of focus in areas of need.
Wasted or ineffective strokes take valuable time from the areas that need additional, slow care and can spell the difference between work that feels good at the time but doesn't leave lasting benefits or a session that brings significant change.
Consider if you could increase your effectiveness by overcoming some of the more common habits that fritter away time:
Taking excessive time at the beginning of the session with superficial strokes to relax the client when their tension and holding patterns are deep
Related to this detail is an overemphasis on warming tissue up. Obviously we don't want to just dive in, but I often see therapists warming up tissue that is superficial to actual tightness. For instance, some therapists spend inordinate amounts of time working on the gluteal muscles when the actual tightness is in the deeper rotators; working on the gastrocnemius when the soleus is the problem; or warming up the pectoralis major when the tightness is in the pectoralis minor. Some practitioners spend unnecessary time on the external abdominals and then dive in too quickly to address the psoas, which is a totally different muscle and layer of the body.
The ultimate key to a successful session is to slowly sink to the layer of the body until you meet a resistance barrier. Usually, these deep myofascial compartments of tension release best when approached at an oblique angle. As resistance is met and the tissue begins pushing back at you, simply meet the resistance and slowly work through the adhesive area. The superficial layers will also benefit, even though your objective is focused at the deeper motion-restricted tissues.
Moreover, don't be too attached to mechanical long strokes, each performed with the same speed and pressure. Individual muscles have great variation in where their restrictions lie. To ensure you can slow down and do focused repeat strokes in isolated areas of tightness, move quickly along long muscles like the hamstrings, quadriceps, and erectors, as well as relaxed sections of the calf, arms, and IT band.
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